I purchased your material and in just hours I felt back on my feet again!
"Hello Francisco,
I purchased ‘How to get your power back after she breaks up with you’ and I want to thank you for your valuable coaching and advice.
My ex broke up with me a year and a half ago and I went down the downward spiral. The break up was so sudden and devastating that I didn’t know how to recover from it.
I had never had to walk through something as painful.
And believe it or not, after a year and a half I was still waiting by the phone! It was really pathetic. I allowed myself to become a wreck.
I finally came to my senses and realized that I needed to get some help for my situation.
I purchased your material and in just hours I felt back on my feet again! I didn’t realize that I could reclaim my power and territory back, nor did I have any idea how to start.
Your coaching has set off a chain reaction in my situation that will continue to allow me to grow and be energized!
Now that I look back on it, it all seems a bit silly. I didn’t realize all the pitfalls I was falling into and all the mistakes I was making to take myself lower and lower.
Pretty much all the ‘don’t do this’ advice you give, well, I did it at one point.
But now I laugh because you have given me the strategy I needed to overcome and feel like a man again. I am truly thankful for you sharing this advice and coaching."
That one audio file has been worth every penny I paid!!
“Francisco,
I needed to thank you for your e-book, and especially the audio files. I bought your package on "Getting your power back after breakups – For men” last Sunday. My girlfriend broke up last Saturday and I was searching for help the next day.
I listen to your audio files in the car going to work, at work, coming home from work, and while I am falling asleep!
Right now the hardest part for me is the "Need to call her" feeling. Your audio file on the "First Breakup Trap" is just awesome for when I feel this. I understand now, and it gives me strength knowing that she will see me as "Needy" and "Wanting".
You can't imagine how many times I play that segment over, and over again. I want her to see me having the power. I want her to think of me as confident and sure of who and what I am. That one audio file has been worth every penny I paid!!
Again, thank you so much for showing me what she is feeling during this time, and what really triggered this breakup.
I will admit, it is still hurts, but I am quickly getting my power back.
Thanks again, I will keep listening to your MP3’s and gaining back my strength and power. You have truly helped me regain my sanity!!”
It was the slap in the face and kick to the balls that helped me see where I was
"Long story short: married 20 years then divorced. I descended to hell with thoughts of destroying what life I had left. Then I found your web site.
It should be law that every divorced man get a copy of your “How to get your power back” MP3. It was the slap in the face and kick to the balls that helped me see where I was and what I needed to do to get MY power back. It worked!!
Wow, this guy knows exactly what I'm going through and what I'm feeling!!!
"Hi Francisco,
I bought your e-book and quickly became a fan of your site. After listening to the first mp3's I began to feel relief of my recent breakup. I thought, "Wow, this guy knows exactly what I'm going through and what I'm feeling!!!"
I recently had a breakup of a 3 yr. relationship with a woman that I really thought had been divinely sent to me (and I to her) and thought I would ultimately marry and have a family with.
I just listened to "Power kicks" and specifically the MP3 "I did exactly what she wanted" and thought "Oh my God, that is EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENED, exactly!"
Your insight is amazing!!
I also appreciate that you sound genuinely concerned and interested in all of these dynamics. I'm sure that's what makes you so good at it.
Your mp3's blasting in my ears for a week enabled me to understand the power battle - I feel like a new man!!
"Dear Francisco:
I wanted to take a moment to congratulate and thank you for your good work on the e-book and particularly the mp3 tracks on taking the power back for men.
My 3 year, live-in girlfriend broke up with me. I managed to intuitively take many of the actions you suggested. Then, just as I was getting my power fully back (as you predicted would happen) - she contacted me and my family and we started communicating. All the old dreams and emotions rushed back and then she just as suddenly broke things off again. I was affected more by this second event than the first.
Your mp3's blasting in my ears for a week or so enabled me to better understand the power battle and have helped me take the steps to take my power back. I feel like a new man!!
"Hi Francisco, firstly just wanted to say a huge thanks for the advice in your ebook. Everything you said made a lot of sense and really helped me to get past that difficult first few weeks after my girl and I broke up.
You really know what you're talking about and I would totally recommend this to any other guys who are struggling to deal with a tough breakup!"
"Hi Francisco, firstly just wanted to say a huge thanks for the advice in your ebook. Everything you said made a lot of sense and really helped me to get past that difficult first few weeks after my girl and I broke up.
You really know what you're talking about and I would totally recommend this to any other guys who are struggling to deal with a tough breakup!"
"Hi Francisco, firstly just wanted to say a huge thanks for the advice in your ebook. Everything you said made a lot of sense and really helped me to get past that difficult first few weeks after my girl and I broke up.
You really know what you're talking about and I would totally recommend this to any other guys who are struggling to deal with a tough breakup!"
"Hi Francisco, firstly just wanted to say a huge thanks for the advice in your ebook. Everything you said made a lot of sense and really helped me to get past that difficult first few weeks after my girl and I broke up.
You really know what you're talking about and I would totally recommend this to any other guys who are struggling to deal with a tough breakup!"
"Hi Francisco, firstly just wanted to say a huge thanks for the advice in your ebook. Everything you said made a lot of sense and really helped me to get past that difficult first few weeks after my girl and I broke up.
You really know what you're talking about and I would totally recommend this to any other guys who are struggling to deal with a tough breakup!"
How to set up boundaries when others are systematically invading your space or even abusing you emotionally.
This can happen in relationships or with exes.
It can happen in social circles, at work or with family members.
It takes the form of over emotional reaction to things you do.
You end up feeling like you walk on egg shells all the time, afraid of making mistakes that will call for emotional retaliation from those who abuse you.
This emotional retaliation can take many forms.
Sometimes it is expressed in the form of projected emotional anger.
It can be physical abuse.
Other times it might simply be silent treatment.
You feel there is tension build up but nothing is being said.
These patterns are called cohercive power.
They are an expression of threat.
The principle is the same as any form of threat.
When someone expresses cohercive power, their goal is to conquer, dominate and get things their way.
People use threat all the time against each other.
If you start observing it in daily life, you will see dozens of examples popping up all around you.
Any time a person uses threat either against you or someone else, observe what happens.
On one side, you have an angry person wanting to have control or power.
On the other side, you have another person wanting to avoid emotional pain.
If you take this to a wider scale, you will see that nations use the same dynamics against each other.
They use military threat.
This is still cohercion, simply expressed on a larger scale.
Now, that we defined emotional threat or harassment, the next question is:
What do you do with it, especially if you are the victim of it?
Well... Suppose that you are the victim of some bullying form, the reason why it happens is because part of you lets it happen.
In probably 80% of the cases, the person who is victim from this harassment forgets to stand up for themselves.
Suppose that an ex bothers you for instance.
They keep calling and invade your space.
You can say something like:
"Look, I don't have time for that - I hear you and wish I could do something about it but I can't - Let's talk about this another time - I have to go..."
DONE!
I know, it takes courage and power to do that.
You can practice this with anyone who steps on your toes.
The moment they no longer can reach you, they usually start looking for another victim.
If you are strong and put strategic walls to protect yourself from them, it literally takes you 5 min to shift a negative pattern that might have been there for years!
What if someone else is the victim of this emotional harassment and you want to help?
Life mastery is a REALLY cool life target because it puts everything into perspective and gives you a long term goal to thrive for!
Instead of seeing challenges as isolated events, you start realizing that these hurdles are interconnected and that the lerger purpose of all that is for you to become and better, more powerful human being.
You know you reached a high degree of life mastery when you feel this sense of ownership over your life!
Events are no longer “happening” to you!
You start consciously creating and designing them!
This last one explain a simple technique to erradicate conflity out of your life!
You can use with relationships, friends, colleagues at work. You can practice it and once you are very good idea, you can diplomatically bring back peace where there was potential for tension.
Turn your best friend into your lover? - How? - FOR GUYS! - Sexual attraction - Comfortable - Security - What triggers sexual attraction is missing - Why she wants to keep you there - - She gest twice as much energy and attention - - Trigger sexual attarction/ - How? - Shift the balance of power and stop saying yes to everything - Increase your personal power - too modest or humble guy - Poor ambitions - etc.
It was the slap in the face and kick to the balls that helped me see
where I was
"Long story short: married 20 years then divorced. I descended to hell with thoughts of destroying what life I had left. Then I found your web site.
It should be law that every divorced man get a copy of your “How to get your power back” MP3. It was the slap in the face and kick to the balls that helped me see where I was and what I needed to do to get MY power back. It worked!!
"I have to say that so far I am amazed at your dedication and what appears to be an honest desire to help so many people who you don't even know. I don't know if what I'm about to hear will work, and of course I know the bad feelings pass in time. Everyone does. But your dedication to helping us NOW is so wonderful and kind.
Thank you for all the effort and time you've spent creating your site and the content. If I may ask, how did you come to this desire to help those whose heart is shatterd? Were you once in the same position? Or, perhaps you just know the male psyche better than most people.
I've been through bad breakup just once before, but this was someone I was engaged to. It's a little bit different - more painful - when it's the person you wanted to spend the rest of your life with, to grow old with.
Okay, with that I now retire to bed and will listen to your audio files."
That one audio file has been worth every penny I paid!!
“Francisco,
I needed to thank you for your e-book, and especially the audio files. I bought your package on "Getting your power back after breakups – For men” last Sunday. My girlfriend broke up last Saturday and I was searching for help the next day.
I listen to your audio files in the car going to work, at work, coming home from work, and while I am falling asleep!
Right now the hardest part for me is the "Need to call her" feeling. Your audio file on the "First Breakup Trap" is just awesome for when I feel this. I understand now, and it gives me strength knowing that she will see me as "Needy" and "Wanting".
You can't imagine how many times I play that segment over, and over again. I want her to see me having the power. I want her to think of me as confident and sure of who and what I am. That one audio file has been worth every penny I paid!!
Again, thank you so much for showing me what she is feeling during this time, and what really triggered this breakup.
I will admit, it is still hurts, but I am quickly getting my power back.
Thanks again, I will keep listening to your MP3’s and gaining back my strength and power. You have truly helped me regain my sanity!!”
I have been listening to the mp3 files all day and I have to say that so far you have been a life saver.
I had been with my girlfriend for about 8 months and I love her very much, so when she broke up with me for space and other personal reasons, you can imagine my devastation. I did all of the things that I am know learning that I shouldn't have. Begging for her to try again, convincing her that we belong together, always appearing needy to her.
Now I am becoming armed with the tools that I need to beat this. It has been about 2 weeks since she broke up with me and it has been extremely difficult, but I found your book just in time.
I am already applying the strategies and I feel better about the whole thing. It is my hope that your book and mp3 files will help me along with this battle.
Anyway, thank you for the e-book. And I may be contacting you for some live sessions.
Thank you again for helping me get through the most difficult time of
my life
"Francisco,
First of all thank you for writing “How to get your power back after she breaks up”. Your e-book and information are helping me in a lot of ways in my life.
Like you mention in your e-book “this is a crisis” and I need to get my power back. I’m sure you get a lot of correspondence like this, but I wanted to quickly share my story. I think these events will make me a stronger and better person overall.
I promised myself to start 2006 with a new outlook and somehow I found your material online. Although I am not completely over my ex, your e-book has helped me on those nights where I just needed a little push to get to bed and fall asleep.
Thank you again for helping me get through the most difficult time of my life."
It was almost like you recorded this around my situation
"Hello,
Just really wanted to say thank you for your insights and advice in the e-book.
The break up I went through was the toughest thing I ever went through in my life and I am still trying to get all my power back. It will take time... But you truly helped me take the first steps in a new future for me.
It's funny because when I was listening to you on the mp3, it was almost like you recorded this around my situation."
Just want to let you know how appreciative I am for your get your power back series.
I went through a marriage break up. I was married for 22 years and then it all fell apart when my wife left me to live with another man. If it was not for your advise I could not see myself making it through all the pain.
Everything you say is exactly right and to include her wanting to come home at the very worst time. She wanted to come back when I got my power back. I did feel good about myself and we did not get back together. It's amazing how fast you really can come out of feeling bad with your advise.
It's been 2 years now since our break up and I feel great. My wife feels bad about things. Recently I sincerely told her that she needs to quit feeling guilty and I really do forgive everything.
I would not have been able to do that for her without your help in getting my power back."
My life is so much richer, happier and more fulfilling than at any time
since I can remember
"Hi Francisco,
This time last year, my wife left me. It wasn't a great time...
I spent a month getting drunk and then decided I had to get my life together. I found your site one night while googling for help with my predicament. I bought your course on breaking up for men, and set about trying to put it into effect.
I have to say nothing changed overnight, but I still found your material to be enormously helpful and I referred to it again and again.
Now, a year later, I find I have undergone profound changes for the better. My life is so much richer, happier and more fulfilling than at any time since I can remember. I have become fit, active and more gregarious than I have been since I was a teenager. I have met new women, my career has blossomed and it seems weird to say it, but my marriage break-up has been one of the best things that ever happened to me. I never thought I would find myself saying that.
I hope others in my situation will take heart from my experience.
Your course gave me hope that I would come out smiling the other side; and I have. Hang in there, guys... keep your head up, refer to the course and don't ever doubt that you too will end up so much happier than you can presently imagine. Work hard."
It was the slap in the face and kick to the balls that helped me see where I was
"Long story short: married 20 years then divorced. I descended to hell with thoughts of destroying what life I had left. Then I found your web site.
It should be law that every divorced man get a copy of your “How to get your power back” MP3. It was the slap in the face and kick to the balls that helped me see where I was and what I needed to do to get MY power back. It worked!!
Thank you again for helping me get through the most difficult time of my life
"Francisco,
First of all thank you for writing “How to get your power back after she breaks up”. Your e-book and information are helping me in a lot of ways in my life.
Like you mention in your e-book “this is a crisis” and I need to get my power back. I’m sure you get a lot of correspondence like this, but I wanted to quickly share my story. I think these events will make me a stronger and better person overall.
I promised myself to start 2006 with a new outlook and somehow I found your material online. Although I am not completely over my ex, your e-book has helped me on those nights where I just needed a little push to get to bed and fall asleep.
Thank you again for helping me get through the most difficult time of my life."
That one audio file has been worth every penny I paid!!
That one audio file has been worth every penny I paid!!
“Francisco,
I needed to thank you for your e-book, and especially the audio files. I bought your package on "Getting your power back after breakups – For men” last Sunday. My girlfriend broke up last Saturday and I was searching for help the next day.
I listen to your audio files in the car going to work, at work, coming home from work, and while I am falling asleep!
Right now the hardest part for me is the "Need to call her" feeling. Your audio file on the "First Breakup Trap" is just awesome for when I feel this. I understand now, and it gives me strength knowing that she will see me as "Needy" and "Wanting".
You can't imagine how many times I play that segment over, and over again. I want her to see me having the power. I want her to think of me as confident and sure of who and what I am. That one audio file has been worth every penny I paid!!
Again, thank you so much for showing me what she is feeling during this time, and what really triggered this breakup.
I will admit, it is still hurts, but I am quickly getting my power back.
Thanks again, I will keep listening to your MP3’s and gaining back my strength and power. You have truly helped me regain my sanity!!”
"I have to say that so far I am amazed at your dedication and what appears to be an honest desire to help so many people who you don't even know. I don't know if what I'm about to hear will work, and of course I know the bad feelings pass in time. Everyone does. But your dedication to helping us NOW is so wonderful and kind.
Thank you for all the effort and time you've spent creating your site and the content. If I may ask, how did you come to this desire to help those whose heart is shatterd? Were you once in the same position? Or, perhaps you just know the male psyche better than most people.
I've been through bad breakup just once before, but this was someone I was engaged to. It's a little bit different - more painful - when it's the person you wanted to spend the rest of your life with, to grow old with.
Okay, with that I now retire to bed and will listen to your audio files."
It was the slap in the face and kick to the balls that helped me see
where I was
It was the slap in the face and kick to the balls that helped me see where I was
"Long story short: married 20 years then divorced. I descended to hell with thoughts of destroying what life I had left. Then I found your web site.
It should be law that every divorced man get a copy of your “How to get your power back” MP3. It was the slap in the face and kick to the balls that helped me see where I was and what I needed to do to get MY power back. It worked!!
"Hi Francisco, firstly just wanted to say a huge thanks for the advice in your ebook. Everything you said made a lot of sense and really helped me to get past that difficult first few weeks after my girl and I broke up.
You really know what you're talking about and I would totally recommend this to any other guys who are struggling to deal with a tough breakup!"
It was the slap in the face and kick to the balls that helped me see where I was
"Long story short: married 20 years then divorced. I descended to hell with thoughts of destroying what life I had left. Then I found your web site.
It should be law that every divorced man get a copy of your “How to get your power back” MP3. It was the slap in the face and kick to the balls that helped me see where I was and what I needed to do to get MY power back. It worked!!
"Hi Francisco, firstly just wanted to say a huge thanks for the advice in your ebook. Everything you said made a lot of sense and really helped me to get past that difficult first few weeks after my girl and I broke up.
You really know what you're talking about and I would totally recommend this to any other guys who are struggling to deal with a tough breakup!"
Wow, this guy knows exactly what I'm going through and what I'm feeling!!!
"Hi Francisco,
I bought your e-book and quickly became a fan of your site. After listening to the first mp3's I began to feel relief of my recent breakup. I thought, "Wow, this guy knows exactly what I'm going through and what I'm feeling!!!"
I recently had a breakup of a 3 yr. relationship with a woman that I really thought had been divinely sent to me (and I to her) and thought I would ultimately marry and have a family with.
I just listened to "Power kicks" and specifically the MP3 "I did exactly what she wanted" and thought "Oh my God, that is EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENED, exactly!"
Your insight is amazing!!
I also appreciate that you sound genuinely concerned and interested in all of these dynamics. I'm sure that's what makes you so good at it.
"Francisco, I purchased your package and it's been really helpful. I wish I had done that a week ago. In a matter of three days I've been able to make a lot of progress by reading the book over and over. Every time I feel like I'm loosing power I pick it up and read."
Your mp3's blasting in my ears for a week enabled me to understand the power battle - I feel like a new man!!
"Dear Francisco:
I wanted to take a moment to congratulate and thank you for your good work on the e-book and particularly the mp3 tracks on taking the power back for men.
My 3 year, live-in girlfriend broke up with me. I managed to intuitively take many of the actions you suggested. Then, just as I was getting my power fully back (as you predicted would happen) - she contacted me and my family and we started communicating. All the old dreams and emotions rushed back and then she just as suddenly broke things off again. I was affected more by this second event than the first.
Your mp3's blasting in my ears for a week or so enabled me to better understand the power battle and have helped me take the steps to take my power back. I feel like a new man!!
"I bought and read your book about the break-up for men.
It's really awesome, I didn't even read it by heart but it gave me some kind of strength and feelings of freedom, I started feeling the breeze, trees, flowers, shrubs etc.
"Hello Francisco, I just bought your e-book and downloaded all the mp3 files. I can tell you are a straight shooter who gives practical advice on relationship issues.
I'm so glad I found your website! I had done a google search for 'breaking up alternatives' and found you.
Once again, thank you for your dedication and compassion for us guys out here who are sincerely trying to build (and keep) healthy, satisfying relationships!
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